“I’ve done so much inner child work… Why am I still feeling this way?”
I hear this A LOT in personal growth and spiritual development.
You’ve journaled.
You’ve held your younger self.
You’ve felt the waves of grief, rage, tenderness, longing.
You’ve touched the roots.
You’ve honored the process.
And still… something keeps surfacing.
Here’s a deeper perspective I’ve been exploring:
What if the anxiety, the overwhelm, the emotional reactivity
isn’t just personal?
What if part of what you’re feeling is the collective pain of children everywhere?
The nervous systems of children right now are activated.
Because of war.
Because of displacement.
Because adults are overwhelmed, and that spills over.
Because the systems aren’t protecting what’s sacred.
If we believe in interconnection, then it can’t only apply to the beautiful things.
If we feel one with love, we’re also one with the ache.
This doesn’t mean it’s all too much. This means: it’s not just you.
Your system may be responding to a deeper knowing.
To your sensitivity. To your empathy.
This is where we shift the lens from
“What’s wrong with me?”
to
“What tools do I need to move through this?”
Because when we remember our interconnection, not just as a spiritual concept, but as a felt truth, something opens.
We start working with devotion instead of just self-improvement.
We become something greater than ourselves.
And our healing becomes a form of service.
This doesn’t mean you forgo your personal experience.
It means you recognize how intimately it’s woven into the world’s experience.
And that, when you tend to yourself,
you’re tending to more than just one person.
You’re tending to the field.
To the children.
To the soil.
To the water.
To the intelligence of life itself.
If you’d like to hear more of this perspective, I teach more about this in the Soul Coaching Podcast.
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